LETTING GO OF MY FEARS AND TRUSTING THE PROCESS/IDENTITY BLOGS PART3

Hello lovelies, hope y'all are doing fine. Been a long time coming and with all that's is going on with this pandemic, having to hold whatever needed to be done until things are back to whatever is really frightening, be it travelling to your dream destination or opening that business you've always wanted to start, personally I have experienced the fear of my dream not failing to come true, I don't know about you but I know most of us suffer from the same.

Fearing about the future can be really worrying and having anxiety about it becomes a challenge to deal with.

After sharing this topic with a friend I realised that many people are also worrying about the prospect more than I thought, it is okay to worry about what might happen in future but also trying to overcome the fear is essential.

When I realised this about myself, I decided to stop worrying and focus on gratitude on whatever comes, there were times I thought I would control everything but it was clearly not possible. On the other hand, living a life with less to worry becomes more meaningful and worthwhile, than a life which you are just focusing on what you don't have or what might happen in the next hour. 

There are times we spend so much time comparing ourselves to others, when we see our friends thriving or becoming successful, we tend to pressure ourselves to be where they are but we fail to understand that we all have timing, God has a purpose for each an everyone of us.He can't give you what you don't deserve.Trusting in God and having faith that your future is in his hands can relieve the burden of anxiety and the possibility of you having depression because of too much thinking.

God has a plan for each an everyone of us, which means if we wait upon him he will show himself and give you a good life that no human will ever think of giving you.

As much as I really get anxious of the future, I try to look at the simple things and appreciate what I have in the moment.I get so proud of myself for the hard work I have to put to accomplish what I have and be where I am at this point of my life.

I have learnt to trust the process - the process that am in right now.Trusting the process means accepting everything that comes with it, which means embracing the things that fall apart as well as the ones that fall together.All that happens in order to shape you and build you into who you were meant to be. We also need to learn how to accept the fact that we can't fix everything, some things are meant to fix themselves, accepting fate  can entirely lead you to an entirely different direction.

Things are actually not meant to happen exactly how we plan them, so, spending your time entirely hoping or being careful of planning things to happen how you want, can be heartbreaking, so accepting fate is really important.

If I think of the number of times I have spent freaking out over my life is really terrifying, knowing there are a number of people going through the same, good things happen to those who believe and trust the process.It can be somehow scary to trust the process, but accepting the fact that you can't control everything should give you a sigh of relief.

You might have planned everything, but it's not up to you to make it all fall into perfect place, it's okay because it's part of the process, you don't have to know why things are happening into your life right now, whether it's a job loss or a breakup, all you have to keep in mind is whatever happening is happening for a good reason and a good course.

I have always tried to make myself believe that as long as I keep going and maintain a positive thought, everything that happens in my life is happening to make me a better person.

Anyone  trying to understand the process should know that wherever you are is meant to be.You just have to trust the process.

Thanks for stopping by😉

Share your thoughts on the comment section, What are you doing to make sure you are letting go of your fears to understand the process of becoming the best version of yourself?