25 LIFE LESSONS FOR MY 25th BIRTHDAY/IDENTITY BLOGS PART5

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Helllo lovelies, can you believe it your girl just turned 25!!ITS MY BIRTHDAY.
I have officially hit 25 year old, halfway to 50, actually a quarter century mark haha...wow!
I personally feel I have changed so much over the years, looking back on who I was back then and who I am now. I am loving the version of me.
Well one thing I haven't changed so far is the way I choose to celebrate my birthday.I'd say am quite low key .I choose not to go OTT.
So here I am, I decided to share a reflective post today on life lessons I've learnt throughout my 25years and how I plan to bring them into the 25th year of my life.As you know I'm quite a lover of writing reflective posts, so here it goes.
1. Don't compare yourself to others.
2.Learn to spend time alone and enjoy it, it's freeing and empowering to love and enjoy your own company.
3. Leave the past in the past
4. Love yourself, am an advocate for selflovery, it's important to love yourself.
5. Practice gratitude, learn to be grateful for the little and the big things that happens along in your life.
6. Create happiness in the little things/create your own happiness/make sure you find some thing to be happy about each day.
7. Listen with your heart, act with your brain.
8. It's okay to be different, you don't have to follow the norm.
9. Be there for the people you care about.
10. Don't be the person with bad attitudes or jealous.Never be that person.
11. Am not a fun of chocolate.But if it makes you happy.Its always a good idea to have one.
12. Don't save anything for special occasions, wear that favourite dress, travel to the places you've always wanted to go..
13. You're in charge of your life, dont let anybody control your life.
14. Be kind always
15. Going to the gym and working out is hard in your 20s, damn it's hard!!
16. Sometimes you have to let people go, you will be surprised how better you can do without them.Just let people do their thing.
17. Don't take life too seriously, find some fun.
18. Sometimes you fail, sometimes you win.Just accept it.
19. Things will work out, just be patient, work hard and note that it's okay that your life isn't where you want to be, but be sure it's a matter of time.
20. Do what you love
21. Start anyway
22. When in doubt, take the next small step.
23. Go for that trip,start that business.Do it today.
24. Don't hold grudges.
25. The best is yet to come.
   So here is to the 25th year of my life*🍾🍾
        Let's hope for a happy one...
        Thank you for stopping by,share in the comment section some of the lesson you would like to add....
             💕💕Lots of love💕💕
Hey, My name is Njeri.I enjoy sharing my wide variety of interest on this blog, so please explore. Thank you for stopping by, Hope you stick around much longer.

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